I had a best friend that I grew up with that completely cut me off. We were always there for each other, then she ghosted. I just want to know why. I've contacted her but she never responds. How do I move on?
I had a best friend that I grew up with that completely cut me off. We were always there for each other, then she ghosted. I just want to know why. I've contacted her but she doesn't seem to care. She knows I'm depressed, she never responds. It hurts and I guess I can move on. It's just bothering me that she won't give me an explanation. We were so close. I just really need closure. This is worse than a bad break up. How do I move on?
I don’t know how to tell my best friend I smoke weed. She’s really against it and actually hates the idea of it and I’m scared I’ll lose her. What do I do? Keep it secret or tell her?
Well I think you should be honest with her because she would probably get more upset if she found out you hid it from her. Weed has a lot of positive benefits and maybe if you explain why you do it and how it helps you, she'll be more understanding. Think about why she's against it. Maybe she thinks you'd become the negative stereotype associated with weed (lazy, unmotivated, can't do anything unless you're high, etc). Maybe she's scared you'll change or hang out with her less because you two don't have that in common. Maybe she's had negative experiences with people who did use weed. But if you show her you're still the same person and smoking weed isn't negatively impacting you or your friendship with her, she might come around and accept that about you. You also don't have to smoke around her and if you're not pressuring her to smoke too then it shouldn't be a big enough problem that she wouldn't get over it. At the end of the day, you should be open and honest with her and she should do the same in return. Hope this helps!
There’s this guy that dated my friend for a short amount of time. He was too fucked up to drive home so I was a good samaritan and drove him to his apartment. When I had told her about it she had been ballistic. I had feelings for this guy before but I thought I could just ignore it but I’ve been failing. I’m going to his apartment on Friday and I don’t know if I should cancel or go. I don’t know if I should tell my friend or leave it at this point and see what happens.