Too often, people long for a relationship because they can't stand being alone. They convince themselves they need love and affection from a significant other to truly prosper. I rarely ever see someone talking about the many positives of being single and how it can actually be more beneficial to you.
*I made this post for anyone who has gotten out of a bad relationship and is struggling with being alone and for anyone who feels like they have been single too long and are feeling hopeless or desperate. I want people to have heathy relationships with themselves and with others and sometimes the most ground-breaking revelations you'll have are when you're single. It's when you really discover yourself and everyone has to have that opportunity to really grow and have purpose. I'm not saying any relationship will prevent you from doing any of these things completely or at all. I'm saying unhealthy relationships will and that people usually have a pattern of bad relationships or situationships. And that's what gives y'all that "all men/women an't shit" mentality and also that you need to be in a relationship to be happy. Both are untrue and people need to realize that.